I don’t claim to be a perfect Christian.  I promise I’ll never make that claim.

I do know right from wrong and the fine line that seems to be between the two.

This post is to ask for your input on a few things.  I don’t want you to give me an excuse to do wrong.  I’m pretty sure my mind is made up in regards to what I’m about to type, but I’m curious to know where other people stand.

I’m not positive how I should say what is to follow, but I will say up front….I AM NOT talking about anyone specifically, nor is it my intention to offend anyone.  Just seeking opinions, regardless of what they are.  If you feel the need to be negative, I might suggest the X in the upper right hand corner (upper left to Mac users)….I’m not finding fault or judging….NONE OF THAT.  That said…..here ya go:

I’ve said this before…..I read LOTS of blogs…..I would say 95% of the authors are Christians.  Lots of posts I read talk about how broken they are…..how all jacked up their lives are.  Most use these lines, I assume, to let readers know none of us are perfect and they’re just as screwed up as the next guy……Ya know, to seem more “normal”.

What I find odd is this:  Lately I have seen more and more posts telling readers about specific things they have done and are doing,  explaining them away cuz “I’m just a broken mess like the next guy.”

At what point do we not use the fact that we’re all broken as an excuse?  I mean….is drinking wrong?  Is getting drunk?  Some will argue fervently that it is.  If it’s wrong, wouldn’t glorifying it via your blog be wrong too?  I’m not writing about the recovering alcoholic who is sharing/venting his or her story.  I’m referring to the average, every day, Christian, who in one post, has been delivered from these sins and way of life and now “battles” the demons.  At the same time of their battles, they talk about how last night they did this or that, but it’s ok….cuz I’m broken.

Is looking lustfully at a man or woman (that is NOT your spouse) wrong?  Does your writing a blog post making light of it because you’re just as broken as the next guy/gal make it UN-wrong?

Listen, (here it comes…are you ready?), I’m just as screwed up as the next guy…..I had to put that there, but the simple truth is I AM.  I am as unperfect as they come.  I do things that I’m quite sure I should not do.  I do things, and as I’m doing them, I wonder if God is crying in disappointment.  I am individually the spokesperson for brokenness.  I put a TON of my life out there via this blog.  I am, pretty much, an open book.  BUT I try my best not to glorify the bad that I do cuz I don’t have any idea who reads this stuff.  I’d be stupid to think it’s only those who comment and if you think that about your blog, GET REAL! I used to look at stat programs and I know that’s not true and I don’t want one of my posts to be read by some vulnerable teenager, giving them motivation to be “broken” just like I am.  In turn, they convince themselves that EVERYTHING is ok because they’re saved.

Yes, He forgives all sins, but we can’t forget, He also knows our hearts.  Do we think He doesn’t notice that we ask forgiveness for the same sins EVERY day?  At what point are we taking advantage of the Grace He has given us?  At what point do we stop?

Trust me, I know things are difficult….especially when we’re talking about drinking, smoking, etc.  To finally QUIT and stop talking about God forgiving you for NOT quitting, is a vicious cycle.  I don’t have a problem with the struggle…..we all struggle…..I struggle….LOTS.   I welcome anyone who needs to talk and I would much rather you come talk to me, or anyone else for that matter, than you write a post about it once a month…or better yet, every week.  I admit that I have actually had the thought…”well, i don’t feel so bad now that I know so and so has the same issues.”  Man, I just think that’s a scary message to have out there.

Again, no, none of us are perfect, but sometimes I see things that seem like we’re using our struggles over and over to seem more Christian…..in the end, aren’t we saying that we’re not learning any lessons, cuz we keep having the same struggles?

I don’t have the answers.  I don’t expect for you to have them either, but would welcome your thoughts.

Care to enlighten me?