Goodbye Twitter

by Pastor T on Oct 22nd in Christian Living, Our Life

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Some random thoughts cuz I’m just not in a good place right now.

  • I have an addictive personality.  I struggle to call it ‘addictive’ cuz I don’t feel like I “need”, but I have a hard time cutting things loose once I start something.
  • The line above is, pretty much, the basis of this entire post.
  • The first thing I read in the morning, when the kids are off and Elijah is settled, is Twitter.
  • I’m usually in a good mood until I sit down and read.
  • I’ve tried unfollowing those I find irritating….doesn’t work…..someone will always irritate me….cuz I’m irritable.
  • I see the things, in other people, that I hate within myself.
  • I see fakes
  • I’m a fake!
  • I write posts telling you how fake I am, partly, in hopes that the other “fakers” will read and be impacted.  Doesn’t happen….That’s part of what makes em fake…..totally unaffected by anything that doesn’t come from THEIR mouths.
  • I am angry—-the wife calls me an angry old man.
  • Ya’all have seen my videos….that’s not who I am.  I am generally a happy-go-lucky kinda guy.  Usually in a good mood…..I usually can find the good in all things….I usually can see the bright side…..I usually can turn the negative into something positive.
  • Can’t seem to do it anymore and the more negative I see, that I’m unable to fight off, complicates my relationship with God.
  • Living in a negative world should drive a Christian to the Word, to dig deep and seek His guidance.
  • Doesn’t work like that for me.  I let it drive me away…..which brings me back to the first line up there.
  • I have a hard time convincing myself it may be time to let go.
  • I try to convince myself that I have made meaningful, lasting relationships via Twitter.
  • Twitter will make you believe that, but it’s not true.
  • There are 600+ people that twitter says “follow” me.  LOL  I’m guessing 500 of them I have never typed a word to or read a word from.
  • Don’t get me wrong…..I HAVE met a few peeps via that network, but the relationships built there are solid ones that I know will continue with or without twitter.

What’s the bottom line?  Where am I going? I wish that I had the answers, but I don’t.  I hate to say “never” and I don’t intend to now, but for the time being tweetdeck and twittelator are gone.  The blogs stay….facebook stays and I’m not going to delete the twitter account.  Nor will I remove the twitter feeds, so should I get back into blogging on a regular basis, my posts will auto feed to twitter.  So, you say, you’re not cutting loose at all???  Well, it may seem that way, but let’s just say the output from twitter will stop.  If you’d like to reach me, there are many ways for you to do that and I trust you know how to make that happen.  There is a big ole “contact me” page up top :-) .  I’ve wasted too much time there and it’s time to get back to bidness.  Wanna see lil Eli, Chaya and Gabe videos?  Come here for that :-) .

I started this blog as a way to reach people in the name of Christ and as a way to stay connected with friends and family while we’re an ocean apart.  I believe reaching people for Christ is a calling and it doesn’t fade away.  My family obviously doesn’t fade away.  I would like to get back to where I started and like I said in a sermon I preached awhile back….”Eliminate the Distractions”.  There are many steps in eliminating all of the distractions in life.

This is a lil update…..disregard the part where I said I wasn’t gonna delete my account.  Doing this half way, solves nothing.  The account has been deleted.  See ya here or on FB :-) .

This is step one.

Buzz it!

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16 Comments

  1. bill (cycleguy)

    22nd October 2009

    Thanks for your honesty T. IMHO I do believe that Twitter will fly away after its initial run of a couple years or so. People will then either get back to blogging or establishing real relationships. I had to chuckle at what you wrote about how many "follow" you. Sort of ego-raising to tell you or anyone else how many follow you when you may have had contact with only so many. I have chosen to neither Twitter nor FB. I am ok with that. I do hope all goes well with you new "resolve." Just keep blogging. :)

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  2. Pastor_T

    22nd October 2009

    Thanks Bill!! I'm hoping to focus that twitter time in the Word…..that usually sparks blog posts :-) .

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  3. bryan hill

    22nd October 2009

    I may just have to try this again, I need less noise in my life. Wish my luck!

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  4. Pastor_T

    22nd October 2009

    Much luck and prayer goin your way Bryan!!

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  5. Brad Gross

    22nd October 2009

    Welcome to the life of the twitter-free man. I haven't missed it one bit! Hope you guys are well. We definitely need to have a monday morning/monday night (for you) video chat….it's been too long!!

    Brad

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  6. Pastor_T

    22nd October 2009

    Thanks for the welcome!! A Monday vid-chat is definitely in order!!

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  7. @ktackel

    22nd October 2009

    Hey, for what it is worth there are at least a few of us that noticed you were gone including @tattood1 & @buchanan23 so although I understand your points there are some true connections made on twitter. I guess the important thing is whether we spend more time on twitter than in the Word. We all need to continually self check ourselves on that one.

    I hope this step gets you headed back in the right direction!

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  8. Pastor_T

    22nd October 2009

    I absolutely agree with ya man…..Definitely some true stuff going on there…..just not enough to outweigh the distraction that it has been …..for me. Not trying to bring anyone with me…LOL Just for me. Those "true connections" I have made will come here and/or email me and we'll continue to connect. No worries.
    Thanks for coming by!! Continue to do so :-) .

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  9. buchanan23

    22nd October 2009

    Hey, T! Dood, it's always great to see people listening and obeying the things that God has put on their heart to do, who can argue with that?! I am glad that we connected on Twitter, at least a little, and I hope we can stay connected beyond that. I started a wave to see if I could find out why you deleted your account but then was pointed here by @ktackel and I'm glad I stopped by, I am encouraged to do some examining of my own. Peace.

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  10. Pastor_T

    22nd October 2009

    I'll definitely miss part of it….you, Kristen and the rest of the west coast crew. Ya'all have blogs though and I'm subscribed!!
    Peace back at ya bro!

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  11. Pastor_T

    22nd October 2009

    So does this mean that I was right all along?

    PastorT'sWife ;)

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  12. Pokinatcha

    22nd October 2009

    I hope my tweets weren't the ones making you grumpy! :) Good for you on taking the steps needed to get things right. I still be reading your blog & facebook. Though I'll miss tweeting with you.

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  13. machroi

    23rd October 2009

    I'm afraid I'm going to take a different angle, sorry! Though I applaud your desire to cut out any distractions (of which there are legion in this world), I have to ask….how are you going to preach the gospel to the lost via your blog? I don't mean 'what are you going to say', but 'how are the lost going to find YOU?' If you think about it, a non-saved person would need to have a desire to seek out your blog – out of every other Christian blog on the web, all over the planet, in every conceivable language. I'm just curious as to how that mitigates the 'go' part of 'go and preach the gospel'?

    Look, like I said, it's totally your call what you do, but seriously, if we let people who irritate us get to us SO much that we choose to just not communicate any more, well, I dunno. It doesn't seem right.

    I understand your need for head space, heaven help me, I really do, but I also know how detrimental it can be to build up walls to protect yourself, because you don't only block out the bad stuff, you know? I know you may say that you're not doing that, and that may be the case, but from your post I have to say…it doesn't really look like that. If I'm wrong, that's ok. But I had to ask.

    I hope you can find healthy boundaries that make you happy, I really do.

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  14. ckroboth

    27th October 2009

    I had wondered were you were recently… Truth be told, I find myself ignoring twitter more and more lately… Except for the searches I have in Tweetdeck for certain topics, so that may be more why I missed missing, that you were missed.

    But I always have the link at the top of Firefox to find you…. And I did… You just better approve me as a friend on Facebook. ;)

    Peace and love Brother

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    Pastor_T Reply:

    Thanks for coming by C! I had ya approved on Facebook before I got this, so we're all good :-) . See ya around!

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